My Thoughts on Dating Girls in Thailand, Vietnam and The Philippines
I've been watching David Bond in the Philippines and he confirms my personal experiences after having traveled to, and lived in South East Asia. I break down my personal experiences after 10+ years of being an expat and debunk a lot of myths and assumptions men who don't travel have.
He privated this video 🤷
I've lived in both Thailand and Vietnam for years. I didn't just travel to these places for a few weeks, I lived in both countries and have had both meaningful and casual relationships with women in both countries.
During my time as an English teacher in Thailand, I worked with numerous Filipinos so I am familiar with that culture as well.
If you're wondering, Filipinos work typically as English teachers or in hospitality here in Thailand. They are usually poorly paid as a teacher ($500 a month) and send their money back home to their parents and extended family which results in them being constantly broke and having to borrow money from one another.
It's a harsh reality for a lot of the Filipino teachers here working at government schools.
Remember though, I said teachers.
Not all Filipinos work as teachers. My friend Mike is from Cebu and does real estate here in Thailand and makes 80K Baht a month. A totally reasonable salary that is much better than what any western ESL teacher in a Thai government school is making.
They have a strong proficiency of English so its quite common to see them working at government schools around Thailand. Because they are so numerous, they usually form local organizations and support each other quite well whereas for American and European expats, our local organization is the bar (joking).
I have a good understanding of the women in all three countries so I want to share my experiences with the women here in this post about dating as an expat.
Having multiple women accidentally
To be honest I would love to settle down and have children with the right person as hook-up culture does get boring and I have more important things to do than just go out with women.
In both Thailand and Vietnam, I regularly have a rotation of 3-4 attractive girls I see. The relationship starts out where we would go out one time, sleep on the first date, then they would want to come straight to my place at night from there on out for the next 1-5 months once a week or so.
Then the relationship dies off and they move on to a new guy or it becomes a casual FWB type relationship where we go out once every few weeks.
I know this sounds crazy, but a lot of girls have their own rotation of men, which I don't think men who don't get attention from women understand.
Girls like men.
Girls like attention.
Girls like sex.
It's just that most women find most men unattractive.
When you get to a certain level and become that guy who is a YES for women, you start to see another side of girls most men never get to.
This is why you'll always hear the term that women are never single. They may not be in a relationship, but they for sure are seeing and sleeping with some guy you don't know about.
For more checkout my guide on how to know if you're dealing with a promiscuous girl:
Edge of David
A disclaimer
Women are women.
They are not radically different from one place to the next, and no, these countries are not some 3rd world hell hole. Beautiful Thai and Vietnam girls have standards like any other girl, and you're not going to get access to them simply because you're white or have an American passport.
