For whatever reason, a lot of teenage girls find this site…
and proceed to ask me annoying questions about their supposed boyfriend. I normally write challenging material, but I need a post to direct all these silly questions towards. This is that post.
Look, a man is either playing with you, or he is planning with you. Playing with you simply means he likes you, but does not see a future. He enjoys your company, sex, and spending time with you. In his heart however, he is not committed to you. You may be tricked into thinking otherwise, because he is nice to you and you do have good times together, but really he is just stringing you along.
The man that is planning with you is much like the guy that is playing with you, but is different because he is definitely looking at you a someone who could potentially become his fiance, wife, and maybe even the mother of his children. Hence, he is planning for the future… and you’re in it! It is really simple to know if he is your boyfriend or not actually. Just answer me these questions:
He reserves Friday and Saturday nights with you. Meaning it is expected that you two will be spending time together on one of these nights.
He calls himself your boyfriend OR he calls you his girlfriend.
Sleeps with you regularly. Regularly means consistent. If it is twice a week it stays twice a week.
Talks about the future with you. Moving in together, having children, making plans to go on that trip to Costa Rica in the summer.
Calls, texts, or Facebooks you once a day. Meaning you have constant contact with him in some way, every day.
When he does call: asking you, “when he can see you again” is part of his phone agenda, in addition to listening how your shopping trip went (oh fun).
He makes it crystal clear that he does not want you seeing anyone else.
He says I LOVE YOU ( duh).
If you have been dating a guy for more than 6 months and he is not doing these things regularly and consistently, sorry, but he is does not see a future with you.