I want every woman who genuinely wants a strong relationship but can’t quite seem to get one…

and every woman who is already in a relationship and is trying to make it better, to actually find and keep the love they so desire. “Create the best lifestyle on earth” is an all encompassing philosophy on lifestyle design, relationships, personal development, and self realization. I write this stuff to help you achieve your goals, to recreate your reality and I absolutely LOVE helping women understand men.

Some of the most popular content on my site…

are the post topics aimed at revealing how and why men think, act, react, and behave like they do. For example: How to tell when he actually likes you beyond just wanting to sleep with you, why he all of a sudden disappeared, how to create a real relationship with someone, how to navigate online dating, how to get over a breakup, when to end a long term relationship.

I get numerous emails on a monthly basis…

from women from all over the world wishing they could create the kind of relationship they want and thanking me for the content I have written because it helps.  I am really moved by some of these messages because this obviously a very painful area of life when it is not exactly going the way you want.

I want you to understand men better…

so you can make your dreams, your plans, your desires into reality. I want you to discover if he is serious about you, or if he is just enjoying your company for the moment. No matter how amazing you are too a man, no matter how perfect and right you may actually be for him, until you understand HIM, his masculine essence, his makeup, what motivates him to behave the way he does, how and why he loves you, you will always be left clueless and vulnerable to the games men play.

I could write a book…

on this topic. Seriously, I could write a book! I have considered making my own product as a lot of people ask me for my recommendations in this area, but after much extensive research, I have found three amazing offerings from two of the top dating coaches that will absolutely help you on a practical level in regards to creating the real relationship you want:

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David Wygant’s The Art of Attracting Men

David’s approach to coaching women can be describe as focusing in on your “buying signals”. Buying signals is the term David uses to describe the process of letting the guy know you are interested…because guess what? Guys are idiots. I repeat, guys are idiots. Once you understand that, asking “why does he not approach me” will make a lot more sense.

For starters, men are sometimes too afraid to approach because they don’t know what to say and they don’t know what to do. You don’t want this guy. He need to work on himself first. The second type of guy wants to approach, but figures you’re taken, you’re seeing someone, or you’re not interested. These types of guys will come up with all the reason in their head to not approach you. You want to learn techniques to make him approach you. The last type of guy is the arrogant tough guy douchebag who is full of confidence and empty on substance. They have no problem approaching you because they are so awesome right?

I like David’s approach to women because he focuses on teaching you how to be more attractive to men and how to let a guy know you are interested in him, all as in a way of empowering yourself to taking control of your dating life.

Guys are idiots. A good example is when I was at a wedding talking to one of my female cousins. A girl walked passed me smiling and staring. I smiled back, then continued talking to my cousin. My cousin said you’re going to go over and talk to her right? My response was “you think I should”? She said yes! She is totally interested in you. Remember guys are idiots. Learn the art of attracting men.

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Evan Mark Katz’s Finding the One Online

Finding the One Online is Evans flagship product deigned to help you find and create a real relationship with someone via online dating. Online dating is estimated to account for almost 20% of all marriages each year. If you have given up on it, or have not tried it, you are missing out on a powerful tool and resource for finding love.

Finding the One Online is designed to deal with and overcome the most common frustrations women have with men in regards to online dating. Guys you like never message you, guys you message never reply back, guys you have no interest in won’t leave you alone, guys flake out in conversation, they say generic stuff, mis-representing themselves, not know the difference between your and you”re, are only interested in sex (wow guys are assholes!).

Finding the One Online does not promise to change online dating or to change guys…but it does promise to help you readjust your approach to the medium so you can get maximum benefit out of it and actually meet quality guys that are worth your time.

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Evan’s Ebook on Why He Disappeared

It’s a funny thing, this is something ONLY women worry about. From my own work, I have been asked numerous times why guys flake out, why they never call for a second date, why you see him once or twice then thats it. What the hell happened? Why isn’t he interested in me…or is he just busy?  It seems like every guy you like, does not feel the same way about you. If you’re confused and hurt because a man suddenly stopped calling for no apparent reason, then you need this book to learn what happened and get peace of mind. If you’re afraid to be vulnerable because you don’t want to get hurt if he disappears just like the last guy, then you need this book. You’ll learn exactly how to get what you want out of a relationship without closing yourself off.

If you’re anxious and waiting for “the other shoe” to drop with a man, you need this book NOW. Why? Because you may already be sending the wrong subliminal message that could make him disappear.

Why He Disappeared is not simply a book on why he stopped calling, it’s a book on men, it’s a book on how to create a real relationship, it’s a book on how to stop sending off the wrong messages that push men away.