Your thoughts help shape your reality. Understanding that is the first step towards fixing an uninspired life filled with a lack of interest.

Often when  unhappiness sets in, we feel a void in our life. Something is missing and we’re not sure what. Instead of staring into that void directly to see what is actually missing. We go looking for a quick fixes. In a pointless attempt to fill that void in our lives, we amplify one other area of our life to make up for the lack.

Financial: If only I was rich, then I could be happy.

Career: If only I worked for  >insert brand name< company, then I could be on the career track I want.

Personal Development: I’m just going to sit here and attract  money, love, power. My life is such a disappointment. I am going to use the law of attraction like those gurus talk about. That must be the missing ingredient….ok  what the heck. Where is my stuff!? This doesn’t work!

Relationships: If only he loved me, then my life would be perfect. If only things worked out with her, I could have been the happiest man on earth with her love.

This void in life is dangerous stuff. Not simply because it is a source of unhappiness that causes pain and frustration, but more so because it causes a lack of interest for your life.

Lack of Interest is What is Holding You Back

Bear with me since this will take a little explaining for you to understand properly. Apathy is our word for that feeling of indifference, that lack of feeling for anything positive. It is this state that I believe why so many struggle to find love and happiness. Love and happiness is only found when you take steps towards self realization, which is just another way of saying “become the best that you can be, the person you were meant to be”. To attract the best, you need to become the best. But you’re not just going to become the best  by sitting around with a lack of interest, and lack of passion for living. Wishing and hoping for things to change, but too demotivated to actually take action. » Continue your journey »