Getting over your broken heart is lonely miserable business. Ive been their, you’ve been their. We’ve all been their. Well OK, not a ALL of us have been their, but definitely most of us have. This little piece of Super Awesome Dating is dedicated to all those with broken hearts right now searching the Internets for easy action steps to feel better, or worse, those who are searching the web for tips on how to win back their ex. You know, the same ex who just tore out their heart and let it burn. The pain of heartbreak feels kind of like a heart attack does it not? Not to say I have ever experience a heart attack (I’m only in my 20′s now people) but if I did have a mild heart attack, I think I know how it would feel. What about you?
Monthly Archives: February 2010
What if You Do Achieve Your Goals?
I have been thinking about this for some time, what if you do achieve your goals and you do end up getting everything you ever wanted? Or at least, everything you think you want, right now, at this moment in time? What if you did have the relationship you want, and the family you want, and the money you want, the travel you want, the adventure you want, the sex you want? Would you be happy and fulfilled? I have come to the conclusion that it really depends. It depends on if the goal is goal driven or if it is value driven. The difference between the two does makes all the difference in the world.
Are you Goal Driven?
Having the relationship, the sex, the money, the family, the career, all sounds nice, but why then are some people who seem to have it all so unhappy and self destructive at sometimes, while others seem to be on top of the world with having the same amount? Take me for example, since I am a great example for this. When I went off to college my goals were to have a girlfriend, have lots of sex (sorry, but lets be honest), make friends, get good grades, do an internship, and land a fantastic first job. Mission accomplished, I ordered from the universe probably the most common and generic goals possible and that’s what was delivered to me. Though seemingly I had it all: the looks, the girls, the grades, the money, the success, I was unhappy.
I had the meaningless bedroom romps, and the unfulfilling relationship with a girl who I had no business of dating, I got the good grades in a subject matter that bored me to death, ended up getting a high paying “good” first job by any standard that left me wanting more out of life. Well that backfired in my face I thought! Like I talked about in my about me page, I took a step back and asked myself, why did things happen this way? What am I doing wrong? What can I do differently to get better results?
How To Talk To Girls…No Really!
So, if you want to learn how to talk to girls, follow the advice I have given. Step outside from the person you perceive yourself to be, and act like that person you want to be. Try new things, test them out, see how they work for you. Every guy is different and you have to be yourself most importantly and embrace who you are. If your a serious intellectual, then don’t pretend to be a frat boy. Have fun at this as it will be a learning experience for you. Do things you never would normally do. Just don’t lose sight that this process should be fun. Go out and have fun. Don’t go out for the sole reason to meet girls, go out to have fun. Meet girls as a one off of having fun. Internalize the big picture steps of what I have told you, so when that girl comes by and your like “who is that?” You will be equipped with the skills to talk to her, that is how you talk to girls.
Quirkyalone = Quirky and Alone…Emphasis On Alone
Has anyone heard of this? It is a movement and a “state of mind”
that actually has a worse name than Super Awesome Dating. It is called Quirkyalone, and that is just such a sexy name for a singles group (sarcasm). No one wants to be quirky: aka socially awkward, and/or alone. So we’re already off to a bad start.
Is he your Boyfriend? Are you Sure?
This may seem a bit funny, even a bit stupid to ask, but are you sure the guy your seeing is your boyfriend. I ask because being a man myself I can say in all honesty, a man is either playing with you, or he is planning with you.