Hopefully you’re problems won’t require any of the above steps. A guy won’t leave you alone because when a man locks in he locks in. He holds onto hope and rationalizes that you may yet come to like them if they do not give up. The best thing you can do with a man is be direct and explain how you feel. Confrontation is never fun, but just tell it like it is and avoid using passive phrases like “I need a break”. It sends a mixed message. Be direct with men. It is the best way.
Monthly Archives: December 2009
Why Do Men Cheat?
Why do men cheat? I touched on this in a previous post on men moving too fast sexually and why it bothers girls to no end. It boils down to THREE things: 1) Sex drive determined by genetics 2) women who empower men to cheat (it takes two to tango and men are cheating with another woman), and 3) men who are not in love with you because they are not satisfied with themselves. All the men who cheat will fall into one of these three categories, its that simple. Once you understand why men cheat, you should definitely read up on how to spot a cheating boyfriend , the 19 deadly signs of cheating, and how to understand men to round you out. Though honestly, if your man is cheating you will find out. Were not that clever.
Shut The Hell Up
Everyone, including myself, must learn the art of shutting the hell up. TMI, too much information, is a common problem when dating; or when entering any relationship for that matter in this modern world we live in. Sometimes we talk to much and say too much. We must teach ourselves when to say what and when NOT to say anything. This takes time, practice, and a conscious understanding in your head of how what you say comes off to other people.
The 20 Deadly Signs of Cheating
THE DEADLY SIGNS 20 Mutual friends start acting odd towards you (they know whats up, your the one out of the loop). 19 Your BF/GF/Husband/Wife stops confiding with you, and stops asking advice from you. 18 She joins the gym and begins ...
Why Girls Move So Fast Emotionally in a Relationship
This is the second part of a three part series on men moving to fast sexually, women moving too fast emotionally, how this makes dating difficult, and some solutions. First part was on men moving fast physically.
So we covered why men move fast sexually when dating. It is because of sex drive among other things, which is based upon genetics. Girls move fast as well, just not necessarily physically like men. They move fast emotionally. To explain better, Ill share two real examples from two different girl I dated who both moved way to fast emotionally. The problem with moving to fast physically or emotionally is you could potentially be missing out on a satisfying relationship. Lets get into it.